To this I say: Uh, duh! C'mon Ricky, we all knew you were gay ever since the days of "Livin' La Vida Loca." No, I kid. To be serious, I comend him for his bravery. "Coming out - even in this day and age - takes courage." So, congrats Ricky on being able to stand out and say "I am gay" in front of the whole world. To do this deserves praise, no matter how obvious the announcement may have been.
Monday, March 29, 2010
Saturday, March 27, 2010
Love
Is it the face of a child? Is it the thrill of danger? Is it the kindness we see in the eyes of a stranger? Is it more than faith? Is it more than hope? Is it waiting for us at the end of our rope?
I say it's love! I say it's love!
Is it the one you call you home? Is it the Holy Land? Is it standing right here, holding your hand? Is it just like the movies? Is it rice and white lace? Is it the feeling I get when I wake to your face?
I say it's love! I say it's love!
Is it the first summer storm? Is it the colors of fall? Is it having so little, and yet having it all? Is it one in a million? Is it a chance to belong? Is it standing right here, singing this song?
I say it's love! I say it's love!
Is it a veil or a cross? Is it the poet's gift? Is it the face that has launched over thousands of ships? Is it making you laugh? Is it letting you cry? Is it where we believe that we go when we die? Is it how you were made? Is it your mother's ghost? Is it the wish that I'm wishing for your life the most?
I say it's love! I say it's love!
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
So "Gleeful" I Could Die!
I am in such a wonderfully giddy mood this morning! I am on cloud nine. Something incredible happened yesterday and I just can't stop smiling because of it. So, in honor of my gleeful mood, here are some awesome videos from the only-three-weeks-away return of Glee!
New Glee Promo
Sue's Corner: "Sneaky Gays"
Okay, is Sue not the funniest?! I LOVE her witty quips and one-liners in both of these clips. "How do you two not have a show on Bravo?" And I think "Swish it up" is gonna become my new catchphrase.
New Glee Promo
Sue's Corner: "Sneaky Gays"
Okay, is Sue not the funniest?! I LOVE her witty quips and one-liners in both of these clips. "How do you two not have a show on Bravo?" And I think "Swish it up" is gonna become my new catchphrase.
Monday, March 22, 2010
Impossibilities
Have you ever wanted something so badly but you know that it would be impossible to have? Have you ever had something so close you could (figuratively and literally) taste it, but it just couldn't ever be yours no matter how much you wished for it?
It's like something so sweet, so delicious is being dangled right in front of me. I can smell it's intoxicating perfumes; I can feel it drawing me in like a magnet. It's almost impossible not to be overcome by it. I would do anything for it. But as I reach out for it, I discover there is a glass wall maliciously placed between me and the most desirable thing. I get frustrated and perhaps a little angry that such a great and wonderful thing suddenly becomes impossible to have. And yet, I still keep coming back to see it, to smell it's delicious odors, to again feel it's alluring magnetism.
Right now, I am content with returning to see it so often, but is it eventually detrimental to my sanity? Am I setting myself up for a load of hurt? Or am I such an optimist that I really think that things may eventually change? Am I such a sucker for happy endings that I can't see any other possibility?
It's like something so sweet, so delicious is being dangled right in front of me. I can smell it's intoxicating perfumes; I can feel it drawing me in like a magnet. It's almost impossible not to be overcome by it. I would do anything for it. But as I reach out for it, I discover there is a glass wall maliciously placed between me and the most desirable thing. I get frustrated and perhaps a little angry that such a great and wonderful thing suddenly becomes impossible to have. And yet, I still keep coming back to see it, to smell it's delicious odors, to again feel it's alluring magnetism.
Right now, I am content with returning to see it so often, but is it eventually detrimental to my sanity? Am I setting myself up for a load of hurt? Or am I such an optimist that I really think that things may eventually change? Am I such a sucker for happy endings that I can't see any other possibility?
Monday, March 15, 2010
Saturday, March 13, 2010
Why We Love Lady Gaga
This post is in response to Quinn's question about why Lady Gaga is such a big deal in the gay world. To be honest, I can't explain why she is such a phenomenon, but I will share with you the reasons why I love her so much.
First and foremost, she makes darn good music. Plain and simple. She is a genius at writing the most catchy tunes that will undoubtedly stay in your head for days afterward. It takes a lot of talent to write so many unforgettable songs. Most songs nowadays lack that power to stay with you; you hear them and once the next song comes on, you've already forgotten it. I would not be exaggerating if I said that every song on Lady Gaga's The Fame Monster album has, at one point or another, gotten stuck in my mind. The fact that she has 2 Grammy awards, 5 number one hits (4 in 2009 alone, the most ever in one calendar year), and has sold over 8 million records is impressive. But to do it all by the time you are 23? Now that takes some talent.
Second, she is a talented vocalist. Lady Gaga is not some product of post-studio computerization like so many music "stars" today. Have you ever heard Taylor Swift sing live? She writes decent music, but she can't perform live. Just take a look at her horrible showing at this year's Grammy's. And Britney Spears, while her music is a guilty pleasure of mine, was caught lip syncing at a recent concert. But Lady Gaga, on the other hand, can not only sing, but she can recreate her songs so they always sound new and fresh. For example, check out this acoustic version of "Paparazzi." And check out her piano skills!
Next, Lady Gaga absolutely refuses to play it safe. Everything she does is a risk. So far, she has not given in to the pressure to things "by the books." That's why she has risen to the top so fast. Her music is not the color-by-number songs that most of the music industry is used to doing. She can pump it up on the dance floor with strong, upbeat songs like "Bad Romance" or "Poker Face." She can also bring it down a notch and sing a song to evoke emotions out of the listener. A great example is "Speechless" which she wrote to convince her father to undergo open-heart surgery. Listen to it knowing that and I dare you not to feel greater appreciation for your parents.
Her cryptic and unusual mannerisms keep us guessing at every turn. I still don't understand what she is all about, and I'm pretty sure that I don't want to. Maybe once we understand why she is the way she is, we will no longer be intrigued by her. In an interview with Entertainment Weekly, Lady Gaga said, "In truth, there's nothing to understand about what I do. It's whatever you think it is. So if it inspires a reckoning about pop culture, music, feminism, gay culture...the point is to make a point." So, pretty much, we may never understand what she's all about, which would be ideal. Take from her what you will, and I will take what I will, because that's exactly what she wants.
I absolutely love that she is working so intensely on HIV/AIDS awareness. This is something that unfortunately has been under the radar in the entertainment industry since the early 90's and Lady Gaga is trying to get attention to the disease once again, because, guess what, it still kills people.
Last, her fashion. Again, in this area, Lady Gaga refuses to do what society tells her to do. She embodies the rebelliousness in all of us. Whenever she makes an appearance, the world waits on pins and needles to see what outrageous and over-the-top costume she comes out with. While her costumes may be outrageous and over-the-top, they certainly are fun. Most of her outfits also carry social statements, like her Kermit the Frog outfit (a statement against fur) or her Fire Bra (a commentary on the female body as a weapon). Here are some other of Lady Gaga's most outrageous costumes.
When asked in an interview about why she is so outrageous, Lady Gaga spoke of her earlier years in grade school. "I just felt like a freak, I guess what I'm trying to say is I want to liberate them [kids who are different], I want to free them of their fears and make them feel that they can create their own space in the world." Thank you Lady Gaga for those amazing words of encouragement. Thank you for letting us realize, through you, that just because we are different, just because I am gay, we can still be ourselves and we shouldn't be afraid of it.
So, there are many aspects to Lady Gaga that make me adore her. And it may be that these are reasons why you can't stand her, which I will respect. There are many popular artists out there that I don't care for, but I am sure you could list reasons why you like them so, like I have done.
"And now, I'm just trying to change the world, one sequin at a time." ~~ Lady Gaga ~~
First and foremost, she makes darn good music. Plain and simple. She is a genius at writing the most catchy tunes that will undoubtedly stay in your head for days afterward. It takes a lot of talent to write so many unforgettable songs. Most songs nowadays lack that power to stay with you; you hear them and once the next song comes on, you've already forgotten it. I would not be exaggerating if I said that every song on Lady Gaga's The Fame Monster album has, at one point or another, gotten stuck in my mind. The fact that she has 2 Grammy awards, 5 number one hits (4 in 2009 alone, the most ever in one calendar year), and has sold over 8 million records is impressive. But to do it all by the time you are 23? Now that takes some talent.
Second, she is a talented vocalist. Lady Gaga is not some product of post-studio computerization like so many music "stars" today. Have you ever heard Taylor Swift sing live? She writes decent music, but she can't perform live. Just take a look at her horrible showing at this year's Grammy's. And Britney Spears, while her music is a guilty pleasure of mine, was caught lip syncing at a recent concert. But Lady Gaga, on the other hand, can not only sing, but she can recreate her songs so they always sound new and fresh. For example, check out this acoustic version of "Paparazzi." And check out her piano skills!
Next, Lady Gaga absolutely refuses to play it safe. Everything she does is a risk. So far, she has not given in to the pressure to things "by the books." That's why she has risen to the top so fast. Her music is not the color-by-number songs that most of the music industry is used to doing. She can pump it up on the dance floor with strong, upbeat songs like "Bad Romance" or "Poker Face." She can also bring it down a notch and sing a song to evoke emotions out of the listener. A great example is "Speechless" which she wrote to convince her father to undergo open-heart surgery. Listen to it knowing that and I dare you not to feel greater appreciation for your parents.
Her cryptic and unusual mannerisms keep us guessing at every turn. I still don't understand what she is all about, and I'm pretty sure that I don't want to. Maybe once we understand why she is the way she is, we will no longer be intrigued by her. In an interview with Entertainment Weekly, Lady Gaga said, "In truth, there's nothing to understand about what I do. It's whatever you think it is. So if it inspires a reckoning about pop culture, music, feminism, gay culture...the point is to make a point." So, pretty much, we may never understand what she's all about, which would be ideal. Take from her what you will, and I will take what I will, because that's exactly what she wants.
I absolutely love that she is working so intensely on HIV/AIDS awareness. This is something that unfortunately has been under the radar in the entertainment industry since the early 90's and Lady Gaga is trying to get attention to the disease once again, because, guess what, it still kills people.
Last, her fashion. Again, in this area, Lady Gaga refuses to do what society tells her to do. She embodies the rebelliousness in all of us. Whenever she makes an appearance, the world waits on pins and needles to see what outrageous and over-the-top costume she comes out with. While her costumes may be outrageous and over-the-top, they certainly are fun. Most of her outfits also carry social statements, like her Kermit the Frog outfit (a statement against fur) or her Fire Bra (a commentary on the female body as a weapon). Here are some other of Lady Gaga's most outrageous costumes.
When asked in an interview about why she is so outrageous, Lady Gaga spoke of her earlier years in grade school. "I just felt like a freak, I guess what I'm trying to say is I want to liberate them [kids who are different], I want to free them of their fears and make them feel that they can create their own space in the world." Thank you Lady Gaga for those amazing words of encouragement. Thank you for letting us realize, through you, that just because we are different, just because I am gay, we can still be ourselves and we shouldn't be afraid of it.
So, there are many aspects to Lady Gaga that make me adore her. And it may be that these are reasons why you can't stand her, which I will respect. There are many popular artists out there that I don't care for, but I am sure you could list reasons why you like them so, like I have done.
"And now, I'm just trying to change the world, one sequin at a time." ~~ Lady Gaga ~~
Friday, March 12, 2010
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